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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-19 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2452 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2452 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Giles Coren and Sue Perkins, The Supersizers Eat… The Eighties]


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[Jeff Davis/Teen Wolf]


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[Django Unchained]


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[Valiant Hearts: The Great War]


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[Child of Light]

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[Jurassic Park]


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[Hate Plus]


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[The Three Investigators]


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[Charlie Hunnam]


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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: I have a weird dilemma

(Anonymous) 2013-09-20 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Why not instead of just linking them actually open up a dialogue and discuss the idea of asexuality/sexualities? Talking, it's awesome.

Re: I have a weird dilemma

(Anonymous) 2013-09-20 05:15 am (UTC)(link)
This...but remember that, at the end of the day, your opinion of someone else's sexuality doesn't matter. If they say they aren't? Then they aren't, and that's where you should leave it.

Also, Aven is...um...Well. It can be really clique and really touchy about some things. So not someplace I'd recommend sending them *unless* they want more information about asexuality. And even then I'd leave it at Aven's wiki.

Re: I have a weird dilemma

(Anonymous) 2013-09-20 03:06 pm (UTC)(link)
op

Like I said above, normally I would just stay out of it but since they're constantly coming to me for advice I feel like I should help as much as I can. And if the subject came up and they both knew what it was and didn't feel it applied in their situation then I'd drop it but I'm almost positive neither of them realize it's a thing that exists.

And I agree that AVEN can be kind of weird, it just seems to be the biggest/most popular site about asexuality out there and figured the information might still be helpful.

Re: I have a weird dilemma

(Anonymous) 2013-09-20 01:50 pm (UTC)(link)
op

Oh I definitely planned on it. I wasn't just going say "here, go look up this website" and leave it at that. I hadn't figured out specifically what I would say but I know that even if I hadn't mentioned the site at all my one friend would probably google asexuality (she researches everything) and AVEN would be the first thing to come up so I wanted to be prepared.

Re: I have a weird dilemma

(Anonymous) 2013-09-20 01:57 pm (UTC)(link)
How do you know she hasn't already researched it and found the place on her own?

Re: I have a weird dilemma

(Anonymous) 2013-09-20 03:19 pm (UTC)(link)
op

I'm pretty sure she hasn't. She's constantly going on about how everyone likes sex (or should) and even though her partner is fine medically (she kept insisting he go to the doctor until he did; he's seen several different ones) she's convinced there's something wrong with him and he just won't tell her what it is (he has no other explanation other than he's just not interested). So I feel like if she knew what asexuality was she wouldn't constantly be going on about how there's gotta be a reason why he's not interested and she just can't understand it. I mean, it's entirely possible that if she read about asexuality she'd say it was ridiculous and she didn't believe it was real, but I thought maybe it was worth a shot if it could help because I hate how much stress and drama this is causing them.