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⌈ Secret Post #2452 ⌋

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[Giles Coren and Sue Perkins, The Supersizers Eat… The Eighties]

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[Jeff Davis/Teen Wolf]

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[Django Unchained]

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[Valiant Hearts: The Great War]

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[Child of Light]

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[Jurassic Park]

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[Hate Plus]

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[The Three Investigators]

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[Charlie Hunnam]

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I don't think it makes you a picky bitch, but I do think that you were a bit too hasty, especially since he respected you when you said that you weren't comfortable having dinner at his place.

But, honestly? I don't think the issue is that you were uncomfortable; I think the issue is that you just weren't that into him. From your description of the date, it sounds like you were kind of lukewarm on the guy anyway. If you'd been more interested, then you may have reacted in a completely different way to all that followed.

Maybe there were some other things, too? Like, stuff that didn't strike me as weird at the time, but all put together were weird? We talked for a while, and when I said I was thinking about moving next year, he said something to the effect of once he paid off his house he could go anywhere, too. And then when I mentioned I liked to travel, he pretty much invited me along with him for a week in Oregon to hang out with a friend of his.

I dunno. You guys are probably right, and I'm just not trusting enough.

Don't castigate yourself for not being trusting enough. Just reading your post is setting off red flags for me. You don't know him and already he wants you to meet his family and travel across country with him.

Read Gavin de Becker's The Gift Of Fear. He describes situations similar to yours, and recommends that you follow your gut.

Trust is something that should be earned. There are a lot of predators/psychos out there and you can't be too careful.

My advise is to not go out with him again, and don't answer his texts.

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