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⌈ Secret Post #2452 ⌋

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[Giles Coren and Sue Perkins, The Supersizers Eat… The Eighties]

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[Jeff Davis/Teen Wolf]

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[Django Unchained]

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[Valiant Hearts: The Great War]

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[Child of Light]

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[Jurassic Park]

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[Hate Plus]

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[The Three Investigators]

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[Charlie Hunnam]

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First things first: you can say no to a date for any reason at all. It's not only allowed, but it's your right. You do not have to go out with anyone unless you want to, and it doesn't make you a bitch.

That said, it probably was a relatively innocent screw-up on his part. Unless he got nasty (that includes passive-aggressive nasty as well as straight up aggressive nasty) with you when you said you felt uncomfortable going over to his place, it sounds like he did the right thing-- immediately tried to rectify the situation so you didn't feel uncomfortable.

Now, the fact that it didn't work doesn't make either of you terrible people. Sometimes you just get nervous about a situation, and that's okay. Going on just what you've said here, my guess is that he really, really likes you and got a little overeager about it. That can be off-putting, especially when you're not that into him.

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