case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-26 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2459 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2459 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________



10.


__________________________________________________



11.


__________________________________________________

















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #351.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(frozen comment) Re: If you actually need to ask "is this 'whatever'phobic?" the answer is always yes.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
A hard this. Would you stop being someone's friend/family member if they were trans*? Then you're transphobic. Are you transphobic if you aren't physically turned on by someone with a certain type of genitalia No. Not even close.

It always annoys me when people say "it shouldn't matter!". But these things DO matter when it comes to sex. And at the end of the day, a trans* pre-operation still has the bits of the gender they were born with, and this should never be a surprise to someone you are going to be having sex with.
bringreligiontothewamwams: (Default)

(frozen comment) Re: If you actually need to ask "is this 'whatever'phobic?" the answer is always yes.

[personal profile] bringreligiontothewamwams 2013-09-26 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah it shouldn't matter that you aren't turned on by black people, but you aren't and so need a warning for black people passing as white (and yeah, sadly that was a thing back in the day with very pale colored folks deciding to pretend they were white and some getting bashed for it if a partner discovered the person they were sleeping with wasn't pure). The same justification you just used over the transfolks was used almost word for word for pale-passing coloreds and why they should disclose themselves.

Yeah it doesn't matter about gay or transguys, and if you have a problem about it, then you are phobic and have a problem. Seek help until it no longer matters.

(frozen comment) Re: If you actually need to ask "is this 'whatever'phobic?" the answer is always yes.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-26 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Someone being a certain race=/=someone wants to be the gender they weren't born with. It's not phobic to not want to sleep with a guy who has a vagina. Because that trans* man is a woman when it comes to sex, because all of his bits are female.