[ SECRET POST #2459 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2459 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: The secret you'd never make because you know it'd be called a troll

[(Anonymous)]

I have been wanting some way to say what you just said about people confusing being upset over rejection with being a Nice Guy. It comes up so much among my friends, and I've gotten sick of it.

AYRT

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah I remember there was an FB post where when a girl got upset about how "all guys are assholes omg" I guy pointed out that when they were younger he tried three times to do things to get her attention (asked a teacher to pair them up, gave her tickets to a concert , and took her to a dance) and three times she took advantage of his feelings" Naturally a bunch of people were like "OMG stalker" "you should be arrested" and "she said no don't you get it"

But when I read it I was like "wait a minute at what POINT here did she say no? According to him when she was his lab partner , he ended up doing all the work, which chows a lack of communication, when he asked her out by giving her tickets, she took them and took her friend out instead rather than saying "no I can't accept those I don't feel that way about you" and when she actually did accept his request for a date to a school dance, she told him she had to go to the bathroom and disappeared for the rest of the night.

This doesn't sound like a girl who was creeped out and tried to get an overly persistent stalker to go away. It sounds like someone who was using another persons affections for their own benefit. The guy's attempts to get with her don't seem particularly stalky. Tried to be their lab partner, tried asking them out to a concert, asked them to a school dance. These are all very normal ways to show someone your affections. Maybe they were persistent but I don't see the girl here being honest and saying no. There's nothing wrong with saying no to a guy because you don't owe them yourself....but you should at least SAY no because when someone asks you out earnestly and honestly they are least deserve some honesty back."