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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-26 06:41 pm

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Re: Update from yesterday, heartbreak from today.

(Anonymous) 2013-09-27 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I love purple, and that shade is awesome. I've never thought of this shade of purple before, but now I kind of want to try it.

Echoing what someone else already said: the hair was just an excuse for her when, as you said, she wasn't really desiring you anymore before this.

Can you live with her not wanting you even if she still loves you? :( I don't have any good advice or anything else to say other than that sucks and I'm sorry.

Good luck with your friend though! I'm hoping you guys will be fine. :)
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Re: Update from yesterday, heartbreak from today.

[personal profile] lynx 2013-09-28 05:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks for the compliment! I can show you the other pic if you want... in normal light it looks purple, but on direct sunlight, it looks a little bit more fuchsia. My hairdresser mixed the colors herself. Try it! I bet it will look awesome on you too.

It's... it's kind of a rocky relationship, what I have with my girlfriend. I want to believe her so much when she says she loves me, but with all the things that have happened-- well. It's hard. She already wasn't a very affectionate person. Don't worry for not having any adivce. I already suspect what I should do. I just can't gather the guts to do so.

Thanks for the good wishes! I'm sure the thing with my best bro, at least will be alright.

Re: Update from yesterday, heartbreak from today.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-02 03:24 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT, and pretty late, but speaking from my own experience? Her loving you and being a shitty person are not mutually exclusive :( Reading the rest of the thread your GF seems a lot like my ex was, right down to "they were by my side when no one else was" and "I fought so hard for us".

You sound so much like I did then. As much as I'd like to hope I'm assuming, that I'm just reading too much into it based on what I've been through, that there's no denial whatsoever? The likely and painful truth is that she doesn't value your relationship and history together. That said I know this doesn't make it easier to break up - or, in our case, to stay away. It took me a long time to finally end things, and longer to feel good again. I won't deny that being alone was scary at first, but in the end it was still better than being with my ex.

Whatever you do, please put your own wellbeing first, and keep rocking that hair!