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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-27 07:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2460 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2460 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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06. [SPOILERS for Dark Lord of Derkholm]



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11. [WARNING for suicide]



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12. [WARNING for depression, suicide]



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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 (warning for rape) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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(Anonymous) 2013-09-28 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
So what? Everybody's life sucks sometimes. Sometimes there is nobody to listen. Sometimes nobody cares. If your happiness is so dependent on others constantly having to coddle you then that's your own fucking fault. But nobody owes you a damn thing. Nobody should have to deal with somebody who is a constant drain on them.

To be honest I am sick of all the 'woe is me' shit I constantly see. And no, I don't feel bad about it because shit happens to everyone and you have to learn to pick yourself up or at least be willing to get professional help.

I have had shitty days/weeks/months but I never say shit. However it seems like everyone else wants a fucking gold medal for their suffering as they constantly broadcast it. It's worthless to try and give them advice for getting through it (which I've tried) but they ignore it of course because the attention and coddling is much more gratifying for them. I don't want to deal with it.

And it's not like it's just one or two people who start getting all depressed and 'no one cares about me' I see it so many fucking times from so many differently people that I've become numb to it. Maybe if people realized that they are not the only one who shitty stuff happen to they would be a lot more resilient.

Oh and here is the secret to a happy life: Don't make your own happiness dependent on the approval of others. Realize that you are not entitled to anything. Learn to pick yourself up and cheer yourself up. If things get beyond your control then buckle down and see a therapist.