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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-09-29 03:14 pm

[ SECRET POST #2462 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2462 ⌋

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blueonblue: (penny century)

[personal profile] blueonblue 2013-09-29 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think real/not real is a helpful way of looking at online relationships. They're different, if you only know someone online, there's more projection and fantasy involved, but that doesn't make online relationships fake. Your mother and you are probably using the word "friendship" to mean different things.

I have a rl friend who always gets in these intense "friendships" online, and then is hurt when they aren't exactly who she thought they were. I always feel bad for her, the hurt feelings are real, but at the same time I know that when she was in high school she spent a year online pretending to be a gay boy dying of cancer, so I would think she would know that maybe other people aren't always completely truthful.