[ SECRET POST #2464 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2464 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 031 secrets from Secret Submission Post #352.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Nonfandom Secrets

[(Anonymous)]

I'm the anon that inadvertantly hijacked a secret discussion a couple weeks ago with talk about my unemployed SO who can't manage money and has resorted to begging people, usually her parents, for bills and rent every month. (Yes, SO was in fact a she, despite most people's assumptions.)

SO actually went out the next day to put in a job app, and the next day to an employment center to register for a resume writing workshop, and I wondered if someone maybe tipped her off about that thread (she doesn't do F!S) and she recognized herself...

Then just now I found a bunch of charges on the account we use to pay bills (which did actually have some money in it which was rightfully hers at the moment). She went out and got a replacement card for the one I took away, without telling me, and when I asked what the $70 charge to a department store was, she couldn't tell me. She said she didn't remember. This was like a week ago.

...So she's either having dissociative episodes or lying to me, and I am fairly sure it's the former, and I am scared to death for her because I can't trust her to go anywhere by herself now but I am not physically well enough to leave the house many days, and I just. I don't know what to do.

Re: Nonfandom Secrets

[forgottenjester]

That really sucks. I wouldn't go diagnosing her though because you're not a psychologist (I'm assuming).

I wish you the best of luck with this. I don't know if there's a possibility to get her examined or any way for the two of you to get any help but I hope there is.

Re: Nonfandom Secrets

[(Anonymous)]

Link to the original secret/discussion??

I'm super interested.

Re: Nonfandom Secrets

[(Anonymous)]

Well, considering she got a replacement card and didn't tell you, I'm more inclined to think she's lying. Even if it was her money, she knows you don't trust her with any if you took away her card to begin with.

I dunno. But at least she's taking steps in getting a job.

Re: Nonfandom Secrets

[(Anonymous)]

I'm inclined to believe her because she was in therapy while employed, is now unemployed due to her doing something illegal that was also out of character (we've known each other for over ten years, lived together for... six? Seven?) and which she couldn't give any sort of explanation for, and since being fired has been off her psychiatric meds. And she was the one who asked me to take her cards away, for the record, so that she couldn't do things like this.

I did mention in the original discussion there were mental health issues involved. Just even then I hadn't realized that we were lapsing this far.