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⌈ Secret Post #2466 ⌋

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Re: I wanna fall in love

[(Anonymous)]

Ok, coming from a person in a long term relationship, you need to keep a couple things in mind. Firstly, you have to put yourself out there. Now I don't mean go buy some scam of a dating guidebook or something like that to learn all the tips on how to be smooth. Those don't work and trying the tips in there will make you seem desperate. I just mean, when you feel a spark of interest for someone else, ask them out. Take that chance. If it turns out they're single and are interested too, you've already won half the battle. And the worst that happens? They're already taken or not interested, which isn't really a loss since there's so many people in the world to choose from anyway.

So after you've gone on a couple of dates with someone to your interest, keep some things in mind: Trust will develop naturally, no one is perfect, respect and loyalty are important, communication with each other is key, and it's okay to be intimate with someone at your own pace. You will never meet your dream guy/girl. They don't exist. And frankly, the person you might spend the rest of your life with will probably be even better than any fantasy you'll come up with anyway.

All you can ever hope for is to find someone who makes you laugh, that you have a few things in common with, who absolutely respects you and your core beliefs, who is loyal, who will be willing to work out issues with you as a team rather than shut down, and who gives you affection unconditionally because they adore you. Those are the core values that keep a relationship strong. And trust me, these people are out there. And there's enough people to choose from where physical and emotional attraction will both exist.

Don't force anything, or feel pressured to do something you don't want to in a relationship. Take chances and ask a person out, because before you know it your chance will be gone. But once you get in a relationship, let it develop naturally.