[ SECRET POST #2468 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2468 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Uh, all the stuff you listed are things you can do without ever saying a word to anyone else.

Do you actually talk to the people in your clan or guild or whatever? Sit around, shoot the shit? Tell some jokes? Let them get to know you?

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[(Anonymous)]

Yes. But I monitor myself because I don't want to be One of Those People either, so not all the time. I get nervous that I will come off as desperate and annoying if I do too much.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

OP, if you're still reading this, I feel exactly the same in real life. I had several friendships from school drift away in a painful manner: I realized I was the only person initiating contact, and they frequently didn't return calls or answer letters, and when I finally shut up I never heard from them again.

It was mortifying to realize that, for months, they must have been seeing me as that bothersome 'Oh, her again' tagalong. It's made me extremely leery of relationships in adult life - I won't make social overtures myself for fear of being annoying, and I'm quiet enough that nobody really reaches out. I'm working on it, but it's hard, painful, and lonely.

*hugs*