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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-06 03:21 pm

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[personal profile] elaminator 2013-10-06 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Those two are not my definition of old... (I agree that they're cute, though!)

And older people enjoy sex too. If you aren't attracted to them alright, but...idk, there are some ridiculously hot 'old' people and I don't really understand that mindset. I don't tend to imagine people I know having sex though, but I read tons of smut for pairings I love even sometimes when I'm not particularly attracted to the individuals. And age has never entered it, really.

But everyone's different. Yay for more smut?
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-10-06 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I personally do not find people who are more than a few years older than me attractive, and I strongly dislike many pairings with big age gaps. But I always assumed older people still had sex with each other, at least from time to time. (My parents were married for almost ten years when my sister was born, and I remember being told that Dad decided to get a vasectomy and being told what that meant. So I got the idea that you never really, you know, *stop*)
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[personal profile] elaminator 2013-10-06 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Everyone has different tastes so that doesn't baffle me. You're attracted to what you're attracted to.

IDK, I just think that if a person likes sex, they'll continue to enjoy it no matter the age. Maybe there are people who lose interest, or can't/don't have it for their own reasons (medical or otherwise) but...yea, I doubt many people would stop having it just because of age.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-10-07 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
Yep, this pretty much. Unless you lose your sex drive, but that's often a hormonal issue that can be fixed (at least for dudes).

I know it can go way down with post-menopausal women, but I don't think it always does. But for like middle-aged women, yeah, not so much an issue.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-06 10:58 pm (UTC)(link)
This is just a random question but, what about the reverse? Do you have the same age gap limit for people who are younger than you?

/curious
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-10-07 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
...well, since I'm 23, that doesn't really apply. Go too much younger and you're getting into all sorts of inappropriate/basically still children/ick.

No idea how I'll feel when I'm older.

As it is nope, really only a couple years in either direction. Not to say I'd be dead-set against dating a guy who is, say, 28, but I'd hesitate a lot, and it would really put me off. Much older and I'd flat-out refuse.
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[personal profile] pkbitchgirl 2013-10-07 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
So a 25 year old and a 50 year old would be a turn-off for you?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-07 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
It would be for me. I can't do more than 10. It just squicks me at a fundamental level.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-10-07 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. Absolutely.

For other people, if they like it, that's totes fine. But for me, it's...I don't know if it's strong enough to call it a squick, but definitely not appealing at all.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-07 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
For the most part, I'm attracted to people (in media) who are mid-30s & up, which is at least 6 years older. But I'm the same about age differences of like 10+ years (7 is probably the furthest I go). Not into them at all.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-10-07 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
I don't get media crushes often...well, ever. Sometimes I'll find a specific live action character cute, or maybe an actor like "oh he's cute" but it's never very strong. If I don't know them on some level there's just not much attraction there. With people in general 7 years is still way too much for me - might change as I get older, but for now, definitely not something I'd want.