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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-06 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2469 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2469 ⌋

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Re: (TW: Suicide, Depression, and Anxiety)

(Anonymous) 2013-10-07 02:38 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know if this is a legit response, but if they've started making these jokes more frequently lately, maybe the best way to let them know about your past is to see if they need help? Joking about suicide every now and again is one thing, but if it's becoming a trend, maybe it's a weird way of asking for help. You could approach them in a serious way and make sure everything is okay, and tell them you're there for them even if they blow you off with a laugh. You can tell them you know how it feels, and you just want to be there for them. If they ask, you can tell them. If they don't pursue, then they at least know it's something that might hurt you, and if they continue, you can politely remind them that you were there once and it brings up painful memories. At least, that way, they come to the conclusion that they're making you uncomfortable and/or hurting you on their own, rather than be confronted with it (even politely) and have the chance to get defensive instead of supportive.