[ SECRET POST #2470 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2470 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Homestuck, Teen Wolf, Supernatural and Sherlock]


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03.
[Supernatural]


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[Watashi ga motenai no wa dou kangaetemo omaera ga warui]


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05.
[Agents of SHIELD]


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[Sleepy Hollow]


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[Fullmetal Alchemist]


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[World of Warcraft]


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[Pacific Rim]


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[Richard III in "The White Queen"]


















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Comments

Re: How To Ruin All Your Relationships 101 - Now Novel-lenght,

[ecoerrante]

It sounds like you might want to take a step back from romantic relationships in general. I don't mean that in a 'OMG!' way - just because it sounds like what you've been through might be something you need to process before moving on to someone new. But idk, that's just what I would need to do.

Also, find a new rp partner. It sucks, I know that. Hell, I'm in the process of doing that now - but it's *worth* it to get away from horrible [semi-abusive?] partners. The comms on lj can be a little dead [depending on fandom], but they can sometimes generate awesome results for it, if that's what you decide to do.

-coughs- Of course, just my thoughts - which are probably totally worthless and bossy, sorry. @_@

Re: How To Ruin All Your Relationships 101 - Now Novel-lenght,

[(Anonymous)]

seconding the bit about quitting dating for a good while

like, give yourself a few years at least, OP

you keep repeating the same patterns over and over in your choice of partners (and friends?) and it's shredding your self-esteem to bits

better be on your own romantically/sexually for a while until you figure yourself out

Re: How To Ruin All Your Relationships 101 - Now Novel-lenght,

[lynx]

No, no, my friend is alright. He's the best guy you could imagine, it's me who doesn't measure up to our friendship. The girls, on the other hand...

And yes, it has shredded my self-esteem. I'm trying to regain it, but it's a long process. I should have never attempted to date anyone again so quickly after my first break-up. The worst thing is that the new girl seemed so caring at first... but then I noticed (and fast!) she and my ex were made from the same fabric.

Re: How To Ruin All Your Relationships 101 - Now Novel-lenght,

[lynx]

No, no, it's not bossy nor worthless. It's good advice, to be honest. I shouldn't have even tried to go out with someone else while I was still hung up on my ex. The saying in Spanish goes "Un clavo saca a otro clavo" (and I have no idea if it has any English equivalent), but it's total bullshit. If only because you can't "take out a nail with another one", you need a hammer for that, and it will still leave a hole and-- I'm sorry, I think the metaphore is running away from me. But yeah, I get it.

I've tried to find new RP partners but none have stuck. It seems like this days nobody wants to be commited to a long-term plot :( I wish you luck in your search. I haven't looked in LJ, because-- well, it is kinda dead. And TBH I'd love to RP in my mother language. All my online activities are in English and that's killing me, because despite having a good grasp on the language I don't feel I'm good enough to consistently RP a character.

(There's no dancinc around it, she's an abusive partner. *sigh*)