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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-07 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2470 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2470 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Homestuck, Teen Wolf, Supernatural and Sherlock]


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[Supernatural]


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[Watashi ga motenai no wa dou kangaetemo omaera ga warui]


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[Agents of SHIELD]


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[Sleepy Hollow]


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[Fullmetal Alchemist]


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[World of Warcraft]


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[Pacific Rim]


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[Richard III in "The White Queen"]


















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shinyhappypanic: (Default)

Re: How To Ruin All Your Relationships 101 - Now Novel-lenght,

[personal profile] shinyhappypanic 2013-10-08 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
I wish that I had some good advice for you but really all I have is sympathy. I've never been in an abusive relationship, but I have been in a relationship where every thirty seconds I did something "wrong" and he wouldn't speak to me anymore. I spent a good six months dealing with that bullshit but finally got to move on by straight-up isolating myself from him. that's all I can suggest regarding both girls...if they text you? don't answer. if they message you on any platform? don't answer. if they call you?...don't answer! and you'll feel lonely and you'll want to respond because the good times were so good but those people sound like the worst times ever and the only thing you can do is toss them in the trash and close the lid. you have a future without them. a long one and a good one! a cheap thrill sounds better than no thrill, but truly truly truly, sitting alone talking to no one is better than sitting on the phone with your girlfriend hating yourself because somehow it's your fault again.

and I don't know why you can't tell this to your family. is there some reason preventing you from doing so or do you just not think that they'll understand? because I think they should know.
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Re: How To Ruin All Your Relationships 101 - Now Novel-lenght,

[personal profile] lynx 2013-10-09 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Sympathy is quite alright. Don't worry about not having advice, because in the end, I do know what I should do. I just, for reasons I can't understand, actually do it. It saddens me that you went through that, because I know how it is. The way that person you care so much about seems to be angered by minimal things, and the feeling of being in the middle of a minefield. I'm glad you got out. I really am.

I was able to successfully block from everywhere the girl from the LGTB group. Can't do the same still with my first ex, but I am trying to step away, however slowly. Because whenever I've went cold-turkey, I've felt worse. So I guess the only way I'll actually manage to do it is weaning myself slowly.

I can't tell my family, because they're sick of hearing me complain about this, and think I ditched my ex on february. Same thing with my IRL friends. They can't know I went back, I'd just feel too pathethic, because it should've ended months ago, indeed. Also, my mother isn't that ok with me being a lesbian, and doesn't seem able to grasp why I would willingly stay somewhere I'm getting abused.