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[ SECRET POST #2471 ]

⌈ Secret Post #2471 ⌋

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Does seem like a lot of lonely people. COME TO ME LONELY PEOPLE! WE CAN TALK ABOUT STUFF!

Edited 2013-10-08 23:12 (UTC)

Hi. I am lonely.

What you wanna talk about? Our mutual and probably troubling crushes on Vegeta?

Always.

Mostly I wouldn't mind just spewing a bunch of stuff about my life at the moment, if that's okay, though.

I couldn't find a serious, "listening" gif. But tell me about what is going on with your life.

I mean it's not anything super terrible but yeah here you go.

- I have had a cold since Thursday and I feel gross
- I have been intermittently depressed and hating myself because I do not feel like I am any good for anything
- I have a paper due on Thursday that is short and should be manageable, but will be a source of stress through tomorrow
- Today was my second day of tutoring a kid and I suspect I'm not very good at it
- I am doing proofreading at the school paper right now which is also cutting into my paper writing time but has to get done
- Every time my friend posts on Tumblr my insane jealousy of her life is renewed
- Mainly the one about hating myself I guess. And the one about the paper.
- This was anticlimactic I'm sorry.

I got sick on Monday (and stayed out of work today because of it), so I get that. I expect my sore throat will probably be around for the next week. Sooooo looking forward to creepy breathing and gross spitting.

The paper will be stressful, but once you are done it will be such a huge relief. Perhaps you can put the proofreading aside until later? Or maybe take little breaks from your writing to proofread (sometimes breaking the monotony can help).

You should not base how good you are at tutoring on two sessions. Kids can be slow to learn. If you don't see an improvement in 3-4 sessions, try a different approach. I can help you out if you need it (I have a degree in Education).

Everyone is always jealous. I have a friend right now who is going to Europe and doing all this fun shit. And I am stuck in Podunk, OK.

I think you are good at things, but like many people (including myself) you get more caught up in everything you are doing wrong. I am not going to tell you not to do that, because it doesn't work most of the time. I know, I have read the self help books but I still do it. What I can tell you is, you will survive.

Re: wow today's secrets

vethica - 2013-10-09 00:14 (UTC) - Expand

Re: wow today's secrets

kaijinscendre - 2013-10-09 00:17 (UTC) - Expand

I have a cold too (I had one last month damn it I feel like I've filled my quota for the next year already) and a huge test on Thursday. We can commiserate. I have things to be excited about but I suspect the test will be stressful. Or else I won't get stressed, won't study very hard and will score poorly.

I'm lonely. I am terrible at making friends. I can make friendly acquaintances, but I can never let anyone any closer.

What you wanna talk about anon? What is going on in your life right now?

Hi - totally my own fault though, since I'm horrible at making online friends. And I lurk way too much.

Hello anon! Making online friends is hard, don't be too hard on yourself. I have only made like 2-3 close friends. And lurking isn't terrible. I lurk on a lot of sites. A lot.

Oh, I'm not! I'm generally perfectly okay with not having many/any [depending on when exactly we're talking] online friends. It just sucks when you have something fandom related that you really, really want to talk about...and have no one to discuss it with.

Lurking can actually be a lot of fun, if you like watching [for lack of a better word] other people.

I have a close friend from school I do that too. I will just complain or squee about a show/book/movie at her. And she just...

But I repay the favor by listening to her RP and anime woes.

AYRT

Yeah...Most of the people I know irl will actually change the subject/get up and walk away/tell me to shut up so ^^;; Not really an option for me sadly.

Then you can't squee at me! Or just go anon and post on here. PM if you want. I may have no idea what you are talking about but I can totally ask questions and feel second hand excitement!

D: I did not realize I wasn't posting as many.

I don't think you have? I just haven't been around to see you post them, it was my backwards awkward way of saying: I missed you!

Awww. I missed you too!

But I see your loveliness on Tumblr (thank you for wishing me well, btw). So I am always creeping on what you be posting about.

Yeah where I spam you guys with F1 stuff! (No problem!) Ohh I have a kinda stalker? This is awesome!

Pfft. This one person I follow will do some kind of spam of someone (usually people I don't know) or something like every other day. It's like: Oh. A pic of some model. Oh another...another. Oooooooohhhhh noooooooooo.

Re: I have missed your gifs.!

making_excuses - 2013-10-09 01:15 (UTC) - Expand

Re: I have missed your gifs.!

kaijinscendre - 2013-10-09 01:46 (UTC) - Expand

Re: I have missed your gifs.!

making_excuses - 2013-10-09 11:13 (UTC) - Expand

I'm not lonely, just socially burned out and no longer sure how to make anything emotionally fulfilling happen. I never see people except in groups, and my job suddenly became 50% telephones. I have killer insomnia this week. :/

Oh. I'm sorry about your job. Hopefully this is just a bad week for you and things start to pick up!Are you wanting MORE person contact or less?

I need some recharge time but I think what I really want is more time with individuals, less with groups.

Job is not a bad week, no; it's a new idea from on high about what my team should be doing. I am treating the telephones as a challenge/a chance to get over my dislike of them, but am also wondering if what I'm learning and experiencing at job is really worth sticking it out for. :/

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