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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-08 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2471 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2471 ⌋

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OP

(Anonymous) 2013-10-09 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks everyone for your replies! I appreciate it. I haven't talked to my friend about this because I'm afraid of sounding dramatic. We are still friends and I don't want to cause any drama, so maybe I'll try to think of a way to casually bring it up to her that I wish we could talk more often again.
cassandraoftroy: Chiana from Farscape, an alien with grayscale skin and hair (Default)

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[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2013-10-09 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
If you're trying to come up with a way to bring up your concerns/feelings casually, I'd suggest just messaging her and saying, "Hey, [friend]! We haven't really talked in a while; I miss you. How've you been?" That'll get the conversation started, you can talk about your lives a bit, and then mention that even though you don't share a lot of fandom stuff, you still enjoy talking to her and look forward to your chats. Does that help?

OP

(Anonymous) 2013-10-09 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
Yes! Thank you, I feel much more confidant bringing it up now. I couldn't figure out a way to put what I wanted to say into words, but that seems like a very good way to go about it.
cassandraoftroy: Chiana from Farscape, an alien with grayscale skin and hair (Default)

Re: OP

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2013-10-09 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad I could help! I hope it goes well for you. :)

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2013-10-15 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a friend I have an exact same way about. I know I've been "replaced" by this other friend and this other fandom, and it sucks. I have no good advice, but now this person has a bond with new friend, and I'm not in that circle anymore.

So you're not alone, needless to say.