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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-08 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2471 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2471 ⌋

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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: When did gender become a thing for you?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-10-09 02:40 am (UTC)(link)
omg. That sucks so much and I'm really sorry that happened to you =(

Things like that just...GAH. I would have been an angry, miserable, rebellious bastard. I wasn't because people around me growing up were pretty flexible with how I chose to express myself even though it wasn't very "female" for a while. (And I'm a cis woman, no intention or desire to not ID as female. I'm just not a very traditional one. xD)

Man I never knew at the time how lucky I was...
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Re: When did gender become a thing for you?

[personal profile] lynx 2013-10-09 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
It's okay. It sucked hard, indeed, and... well, I won't lie, it led to a lot of trouble along the years. But it formed part of what I am today so the only thing I regret about it is that my parents never got the nuns to fire that teacher, because the teacher forced me to say I made it up when confronted with the social assistant from the Ministry of Education, and it all ended up on nothing. At least I got the fuck out of there and switched schools on the middle of 3rd year.

I was exactly that, ahaha. Angry, miserable and rebellious. Also very very VERY uncomfortable with the idea of unbreakable gender roles, so who knows, maybe that old hag did me a pyrrhic favor.

I'm glad you never had to go through something like that! Having freedom to express oneself is priceless. I also think you don't have to fit as the cookie-cutter "female" to ID as a cis woman, though, so you keep rocking on :3bb
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Re: When did gender become a thing for you?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-10-09 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you are able to see it somewhat positively after the fact! And what a shame she never got fired. People like that shouldn't be in positions of influence over children.

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