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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-10 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2473 ]


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[personal profile] mashek 2013-10-11 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I think a lot of young women use slash as a way to expose themselves to sex, without feeling personally threatened by it. Without a woman/female character to "Mary Sue" yourself into you're removed from the situation and can enjoy the sexy fun times from a distance.

A lot of people don't seem to like to talk about the fact that sex can be scary to someone whose never had it. There's so much importance put on it and it seems like this HUGE deal what with all the virginity BS that gets spouted. Also a lot of women and girls have experienced sexual violation at a young age. Slash can be baby steps to ease yourself into it.

As you've matured and gotten capable of understanding sex on a personal level you've gotten into stuff you have an easier time imaging yourself in.

As for gen, it relies entire on story telling and skill. Erotica can be exceptionally well written, but a lot of it is just about the fucking.

TL;DR I get it OP, for some people that's just the path they take as they mature