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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-10 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2473 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2473 ⌋

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[personal profile] cleverthylacine 2013-10-12 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. I've been there, and it sucks.

However, despite all the stories anti-choicers tell about the psychological effects of abortion, it really does almost always get better over time; people who report otherwise are usually the ones who were pressured into doing it by family/partners &c, not people who choose it freely because they know it's the right thing for them to do at the time.

Don't be afraid to grieve if you feel like grieving. It doesn't mean you feel guilty, it means you made a tough decision. Don't beat yourself up when you feel relieved or happy not to be pregnant. It's totally legitimate to be glad to have avoided something that would fuck up your life.

You don't owe anyone an explanation. Your body, your rules. Your feelings. Be gentle with yourself and let yourself feel what you feel. *hugs*