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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-13 03:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #2476 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2476 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
I loathe the "you could be oblivious as to you're gay-bi-ness!" argument. Um, no. It doesn't work like that. You know when it happens.

And that "obliviousness" argument creates some ugly entitlement issues in the populations that believes it.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
no, not necessarily. it can take a while before you realize it. i spent the majority of my life thinking i was straight because i knew that i liked guys, so therefore i must be straight, right? wrong. it wasn't until a got a really major, really undeniable crush on a girl that i realized that yeah, i'd thought girls were attractive all along, i just tried to rationalize it as being non-sexual attraction.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
I was sixteen and had to have my own love of women POINTED OUT TO ME.

So, yeah, fuck you, straighty.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-14 04:26 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 26, and I know jack squat about my own orientation. I think I'm asexual because I don't have a specific desire for sex, but the notion doesn't bother me at all in the context of a good relationship - and I'm open to that relationship being straight or gay, because frankly whether or not a person likes dogs (just for one example) is a much more important compatibility factor for me than what their genitals are.

On the other hand, I've never tasted mango, so of course I don't go about having cravings for it. Maybe I am straight, gay, bi, or whatever. Or maybe the very fact that I don't know confirms the asexuality. But assuming there's something wrong with people because they don't have themselves figured out yet is an ugly attitude too.
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[personal profile] poisonenvy 2013-10-14 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Yep, I thought for years that I was asexual because I wasn't attracted to men. And then I realize I was actually attracted to women. And then a few years down the line, I realized I was actually attracted to men, too. So...

(Anonymous) 2013-10-15 06:10 am (UTC)(link)
I loathe the "you could be oblivious as to you're gay-bi-ness!" argument. Um, no. It doesn't work like that. You know when it happens.

Um, yes, it can. You're talking about entitlement while insisting your limited observation defines reality? Bullshit.