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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-14 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2477 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2477 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-15 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
If you're so disturbed by the whole "mothers can no longer be thought of as anything but mothers" thing, then quit looking for songs that do exactly that.

Love songs are about love, not whether or not you've shoved a baby out of your vagina.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-15 04:31 am (UTC)(link)
troll in the dungeon

(Anonymous) 2013-10-15 05:33 am (UTC)(link)
i agree with anon?


there are tons of love songs easily applicable to mothers because they're not about that.


but honestly from the secret alone i'd say op probably has more personal issues with how she's viewed as a mother as opposed to seeing a widespread problem of non-inclusive love songs.
hiyami: (Bunny munch)

[personal profile] hiyami 2013-10-15 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with anon also.
Seriously, like many people above have said :
1) sticking a reference to kids in a love song can be pretty off-topic or awkward.
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2) a lot of love songs aren't that specific that mothers are excluded from being concerned.

Actually, the only songs I can think of that specifically refer to women who are unattached and free to party are stupid club dance songs. I wouldn't call them love songs, just hook-up songs.

And by the way, I know a lot of mothers who manage to get an evening out to party once in a while. Married mothers, even. Mothers who are in a partnership with someone who acknowledges that a couple stands longer if both parts can have spare time and fun, either together or separately.


So, in short : stop listening to party songs. Not love songs.