[ SECRET POST #2477 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2477 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

Re: TL;DR answer

[(Anonymous)]

Bingo. I too know someone like this--and she's not happy either. Or rather, she has sharp ups and downs, because she's passionately interested and enthusiastic about a lot of things, but on the other hand she's a people-pleaser who can't say no either to an activity or to people (usually family members) who expect her to do things for them. And she's been basically taught to measure her worth by how little sleep she gets. Eventually she gets overextended and stressed, and comes unglued--it's a repetitive cycle.

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[lynx]

Yeah. It's a terrible thing. I used to be like this back in High School, before going to College finished the job of screwing me up and I came to full stop, strongly affected by depression.

Now I've become the opposite. I still have a lot of interests and plans, but never finish anything because my motivation doesn't last enough. I procrastinate chronically. And I'm still a people-pleaser who doesn't know how to say no, but this time I fail at pleasing anyone. I'm more like a continuous disappointment to my family.

So I know for a fact this is a very damaging way of living, it can destroy you completely. You better warn your friend when there's still time.