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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-15 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2478 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2478 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[rune factory 4]


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[Law & Order]


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[Wander Over Yonder]


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[Breaking Bad]


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[Transformers: IDW Generation One]


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(Panic! at the Disco)


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[Luke Evans as Bard the Bowman in "The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug"]


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[league of legends pro teams - team curse]




















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ugh. ugh ugh ugh.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Anon, you should not feel guilty at all. The idea of "passing as straight" is such complete bs and operates under the assumption that you can act in a way that isn't straight. Which... doesn't even make sense. Sexual orientation is based on attraction (or lack thereof, of course), not behavior, and to say or imply otherwise is totally backwards. People assuming you're straight has nothing to do with how you act or look or whatever, and everything to do with most of the world being heteronormative.

Don't let people get you down. And you're right, if you don't want to tell anyone, then you don't have to.

Re: ugh. ugh ugh ugh.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
This. Unless you're putting active effort into it, that's not so much passing as being passed off- you aren't trying to make people think you're something that you aren't, people are just misreading you because of their own filters and stereotypes.