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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-15 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #2478 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2478 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[rune factory 4]


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03.
[Law & Order]


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04.
[Wander Over Yonder]


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[Breaking Bad]


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[Transformers: IDW Generation One]


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(Panic! at the Disco)


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[Luke Evans as Bard the Bowman in "The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug"]


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[league of legends pro teams - team curse]




















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 027 secrets from Secret Submission Post #354.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 28 and I've only ever had sex with one person, about 6-8 times, and it was almost 10 years ago.

I'm asexual so I feel like I at least have a reason for it but part of me still feels completely fucking pathetic for not having slept with more people.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 08:50 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 28 and a virgin, anon. There's absolutely nothing pathetic about not having slept with more people, and if you don't want to have sex then you shouldn't be made to feel like you have to in order to not be pathetic. It's nobody's business but yours, and the worth of a person comes from a lot more than how much sex they've had.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 10:04 am (UTC)(link)
27 and a virgin because I'm asexual. The amount of people who told me I can't possibly know I'm asexual if I never tried it is amazing. So don't let weird societal expectations pressure you into stuff you don't want and/or need.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 03:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm 38 and have had sex 4 times with one person. And I regret that much: I did it basically to overcome some fear and aversion. I'd probably be less reluctant to seek a relationship now if I had taken another path in trying to deal with my fears.

I would hope you wouldn't be so unkind as to consider me pathetic; aim to be just as kind to yourself!

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, I'm nearly 21 and not asexual in the least and I've never had sex. Granted, maybe that does make me pathetic, but I reject that conclusion, because I'm not. Don't worry about it. Your worth is not a function of how many people you have put in contact with your genitalia.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-10-16 09:50 pm (UTC)(link)
nearly 24 , a virgin and not asexual.


You know what? fuck people who think that's "pathetic". It's not. The idea of pathetic doesn't mean much to me anymore because it's relative. A person can consider you pathetic for writing fanfiction, for being shy, for not being able to do what they can and etc. And if someone called you pathetic for ANY of those then they're an asshole.