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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-16 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2479 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2479 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-17 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
OP, I just came back from a long trip to see my mother, who has dementia. It has ripped me up. I'm very lucky I have family members who live closer to her, and I know she's being taken care of - but I see how hard it is for them and my heart aches twice as bad.

I am so sorry for the loss you're undergoing. Losing your mother like that is so fucking unfair and so sad for everyone involved. It hurts in big and little ways. I can only echo everything that everyone else is right: be sure to take time for yourself, avail yourself of any help that anyone offers. If they say they want to help, take them up on it; whether that's cooking a meal for you, being a shoulder for you to cry on, or taking time to watch your mom so that you can sleep, or get out and watch a movie or just look at the sky, whatever.

You're in my thoughts.