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fandomsecrets2013-10-18 06:54 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2481 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2481 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[game of thrones]
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[Star Trek, Sleepy Hollow, Elementary]
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[Junjou Romantica]
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06. [SPOILERS for Percy Jackson]
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07. [WARNING for suicide/self-harm]
[Slipknot]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #354.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 04:57 am (UTC)(link)So there is a significant number of people who don't realize that that trope is just fantasy. And so when they see that sort of trope in works over and over again, it makes people like that feel normal and justified. It normalizes rape. It's the same as how making jokes about raping people just makes rapists feel like they're the normal people. That everyone is a rapist. That when someone says 'no' they actually mean 'take me, I'm yours!'
This issue isn't that the people who dislike it don't know the difference between fantasy and reality. The issue is that a lot of rapists don't, and media that romanticizes rape only encourages them.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 05:10 am (UTC)(link)Please point out to me how many fans of yaoi or hentai have raped someone because of yaoi or hentai, which as genres themselves are explicitly known and recognized to be a fantasy by their readers, go on. You're trying to imply a causation out of a correlation and that's wrong.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 05:52 am (UTC)(link)The fact is that even when something is obviously fictional and a fantasy, not all aspects of it are realized as fantastical. It happens all the time. You get people who read historical fiction without being familiar with that area of history, who know the story isn't real but can't tell the completely fictional events from the real ones. In the same way you get people who know that the characters and story are fictional, but don't realize that in real life if someone doesn't consent to sex and you have sex with them that it's rape. Especially if it's in something that's marketed as a romance rather than a rape fantasy.
And damn. There are a lot of rapists and potential rapists out there who don't think a lack of consent means it's rape.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 06:25 am (UTC)(link)Ah, so you admit you've been making up bullshit.
Rape jokes about real victims are gross, but I don't see how making a joke drawing about Celestia molesting Twilight Sparkle with a big ass "THIS IS AN ADULTS-ONLY JUVENILE HUMOR BLOG, THE AUTHOR DOESN'T SUPPORT ANY OF THESE ACTS IRL, DON'T LIKE DON'T READ" warning is 'supporting the world view of potential rapists that rape is normal'. Yet I've seen people attack that too, and that's when it isn't anymore about actual issues it's about making people stop liking what you don't like. And yes, I'm talking about a real blog.
I don't see how it is not the responsibility of the reader to inform themselves, rather than taking everything they read for 100% truth like an idiot. It's a lacking on their part, not on the author's, as long it's clear that it's a work of fiction.
I still maintain if I decide that I'm actually okay with it, then I was never raped, and what the author writes, goes. Which is one of the reasons why I do not consider Junjou Romantica not a rape fantasy, among others I've already explained above. If you want me to repeat myself do say so.
If you're talking other series, I'd rather you named them instead of keeping the vague talk.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 06:47 am (UTC)(link)I'm tired too, yep.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 09:43 am (UTC)(link)wow. maybe you need to put down your wonderful fantasy world of yaoi where everything is consent and nothing is problematic because it's all just fantasy and take a look at the real world.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 11:05 am (UTC)(link)no everything has to be some media's fault
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 06:33 am (UTC)(link)I don't see why you're even bothering anymore. The anon you're talking to seems completely oblivous to the idea of rape culture and how that even in fictional tropes, it can still be harmful.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 06:42 am (UTC)(link)DA
(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)You know what makes someone commit rape? The rapist's desire to rape. Not something they read in a book or saw on TV. I think it's bullshit to try to shift any of the blame onto anyone or anything else. The vast majority of men out there never commit rape and understand that no means no without having to be told this.
If someone commits rape and then tries to excuse themselves with "well I read it in a book so I thought it was okay!" they already know that what they did was wrong if they think they have to justify their actions.
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(Anonymous) 2013-10-19 06:38 am (UTC)(link)Damn it, I meant to say that even in fiction those tropes can still be harmful.. Hope that makes more sense. I'm too tired to continue so I'm going to bed.