[ SECRET POST #2482 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2482 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I honestly don't think that has anything to do with asexuality. A lot of sexual people don't understand cheating or why someone would cheat on their partner. Or maybe I'm just not understanding you.

[feotakahari]

What I mean is that to me, sex is something you do with your partner. I wasn't in a position to understand Mitch having sex with a stranger, since he already had a partner, and he didn't seem to want the stranger to be his partner instead. Maybe that's a normal thing for sexual people, but there sure are a lot of men (in real life, not in fiction) who act like they're making a great sacrifice by only having sex with one woman.

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DA

no thats pretty normal for a lot of sexual people. not that there aren't examples otherwise, but it's reaaaaaally not a question of sexuality vs asexuality. a lot of the time, cheating isn't even "really" about sexual desire. and your real life examples seem to be more of a personality/reflection of cultural standards for guys than anything related to being sexual in general.

[(Anonymous)]

How would you feel about emotional infidelity? It's a similar sort of betrayal, although depending on context, not everyone holds both kinds of cheating on the same level.

[feotakahari]

I don't really know. It seems like it's something that happens when the person you're with is failing to provide the support you need to stay mentally sound, so I can't completely condemn it. Then again, unless the person you're with is abusive and/or completely unreasonable, you should be able to talk to them about feeling abandoned. (And if they ARE abusive and/or completely unreasonable, it's in your best interest to find a way out of the relationship if at all possible.)