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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-20 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2483 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2483 ⌋

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Re: Abusive behavior in friendships vs romantic relationships

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I guess one example is behavior driven by romantic jealousy? You mention shipping, so if you look at certain behavior through the lens of "these characters are fucking offstage" or "these characters are secretly in love with each other" (which are presumptions a lot of shipping and shippy fanfic is based on), behavior that would be relatively benign, if still somewhat possessive/bossy/douchey, in a platonic friendship, would become more sinister with the romantic context.