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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-20 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2483 ]


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Re: A moral dilemma for you?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-20 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I think a couple like that can work. It's normal though, that the family and friends of the mentally challenged person will be more careful/sceptical of their partner. Sexual predators do pick out mentally challenged people more often!

I see nothing wrong with breaking up a relationship in that scenario. The intellect is part of the attraction to a person, and it can "even" be too much for partners of people who are physically handicapped and not mentally.
That's a difference to not caring for them though. Do they have other people who can&want to care/provide for them? If not, then I would think it's only decent to care for your partner, depending on the committment level in your relationship.

I guess it's different to caring for somebody who loses their mental/physical capacity due to age, because "there's an end in sight", compared to somebody which gets into an accident in the prime of their lifes though...