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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-20 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2483 ]


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Re: Abusive behavior in friendships vs romantic relationships

(Anonymous) 2013-10-21 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
I think there can be a difference. For example I could see a vitriolic friendship (always belittling, sometimes to the point it hurts) turn into a really nasty romantic relationship if jealousy became involved.

Also, while this may not turn to the abusive, I respect a lot more of personal flaws in a friend than in a potential romantic partner, because at the end of the day I can walk away from them and whatever their stances on gender, religion, politics... we can agree to disagree.

Another thing could be their stance on truthfulness, fidelity, loyalty. If one of these things didn't add up in a romantic relationship I would potentially be way more creeped out than in a friendship.