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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-20 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2483 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2483 ⌋

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Re: A moral dilemma for you?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-21 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who is personally autistic and would be downright pissed if someone assumed a person I was with MUST be preying on me...it depends. It depends one how much I know about the other person, and their ability. If I knew FOR A FACT that the disabled person was not able to understand the situation I would speak up. I think the disabled person's feeling about their partner do matter very much, but if they are being put in a situation they can't understand or are sacrificing comfort for their 'love' , then they're still being abused.

That's a difficult situation. I'd like to think that heaven forbid if it happened to me I would support them as best I could. I don't think I would feel entirely comfortable having sex with them, but I would try to be there for them, maybe find other ways to show my affection and love.

I think it depends on the person , if they left them but in good hands because they couldn't handle it themselves it's one thing but if it's just "oh you had an accident? Ugh I don't want to waste my life looking after you lolbye" then yeah that would say some negative things in my mind.

This is a very complex situation and has a lot of possibilities. SJWs tend to see things in "right or wrong" goggles and don't acknowledge them (and usually yell at people who DO acknowledge them because in their mind "OMG you're just a part of the problem then".)
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Re: A moral dilemma for you?

[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-10-21 03:02 am (UTC)(link)
As someone who is personally autistic

That's not mentally retarded. That is in fact pretty damn different! I mean, you're typing whole paragraphs here.

Re: A moral dilemma for you?

(Anonymous) 2013-10-21 03:21 am (UTC)(link)
I know but I'm bringing it up because it is a mental disorder and...it can cause people to act in a way that appears immature . Like I can type well but a couple years ago at a mall I embarrassed myself by acting immature and it's only looking back that I realized I was acting like a little kid nearly jogging and trying to weave around in crowds .

A person can be good at typing and appear rational and sane online when you only see them by the words they type but when you see them in public it's different. In a text based environment like the internet. I can myself appear like a normal functioning human, while in real life i tend to mess up , or do things that make me look immature, and to other not there.

Also I've seen conversations (relating to "moe" characters. where people talked about the morality of sex with an autistic person and whether he autistic person is able to consent. (the original conversation had been about whether moe characters were sexualizing autistic characteristics or some such)

I apologize for bringing it up. I didn't mean to infer that autism=mentally retarded (I'd never say that). I brought it up as a point of reference of why meddling in the affairs of people with mental disorders and disabilities to protect them can be dangerous business.