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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-21 07:04 pm

[ SECRET POST #2484 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-10-21 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
no. it's just that what you see is positive and to the others it's negative. i tend to hate when people walk with any kind of swagger or haughtiness. it makes me roll my eyes. unless you are walking away from saving the world or something, you ain't shit so tone it down. there's having confidence and then just being a douche imo.

[personal profile] khronos_keeper 2013-10-22 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Ohhh, I see. Hm, maybe it's a difference in experience. I mean, there's definitely a time and a place when it's okay to swagger, and I eyeroll pretty hard if I see a guy swaggering when I think it's ridiculous.

Maybe partly it's because of where/how I grew up-- the guys who did it where I come from weren't understood as necessarily telegraphing haughtiness or overconfidence. It was just part of "doing" being a guy, it was okay to walk like that (depending on who you were).

I guess there is one exception-- if you roll with your swagger, sort of like side to side, then it looks like you're spoiling for a fight. And unless you are really actually going to fight, you better knock that shit off, because otherwise someone will do it for you.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
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Same. I grew up in a pretty rough area with a lot of wannabe gangsters, so this walk - though I guess its associations are pretty negative - doesn't even make me blink, because several of my friends did and still do it. It's not a conscious "I'm a douchebag" thing, it was just an "I'm a guy" thing that everyone did.