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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-21 07:04 pm

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[personal profile] khronos_keeper 2013-10-22 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
Ohhh, I see. Hm, maybe it's a difference in experience. I mean, there's definitely a time and a place when it's okay to swagger, and I eyeroll pretty hard if I see a guy swaggering when I think it's ridiculous.

Maybe partly it's because of where/how I grew up-- the guys who did it where I come from weren't understood as necessarily telegraphing haughtiness or overconfidence. It was just part of "doing" being a guy, it was okay to walk like that (depending on who you were).

I guess there is one exception-- if you roll with your swagger, sort of like side to side, then it looks like you're spoiling for a fight. And unless you are really actually going to fight, you better knock that shit off, because otherwise someone will do it for you.

(Anonymous) 2013-10-22 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
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Same. I grew up in a pretty rough area with a lot of wannabe gangsters, so this walk - though I guess its associations are pretty negative - doesn't even make me blink, because several of my friends did and still do it. It's not a conscious "I'm a douchebag" thing, it was just an "I'm a guy" thing that everyone did.