[ SECRET POST #2485 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2485 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Sleepy Hollow]


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03.
[Twilight]


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04.
[Lana Del Rey / Marina and the Diamonds]


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05.
[Long Way Round, Long Way Down]


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06.
[Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.]


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07.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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08.
[Pacific Rim]


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09.
[Game of Thrones]


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10.
[Captain Marvel]


















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 034 secrets from Secret Submission Post #355.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

08. http://i41.tinypic.com/2lw12s6.jpg
[Pacific Rim]

[(Anonymous)]

That's sad. I'm sorry OP.

[(Anonymous)]

Break-ups suck. You'll be fine eventually. In the mean time, chocolate.

[(Anonymous)]

You'll find another copilot, OP.

(And can I just say SDFSDKFKHWERHK! that is a hot picture of Charlie Hunnam? Dayum.)

[(Anonymous)]

Seems like you two had some issues with communication.

[insanenoodlyguy]

You know, there relationship was (refreshingly) pretty platonic.

So... not the best choice of words.

[(Anonymous)]

you completely missed it

[(Anonymous)]

He broke up with you by just flat out not talking to you anymore? That is seriously childish and douchetastic. I'm sorry OP.

[(Anonymous)]

OP

yeah he did and to be even more highschool he started blocking me instead of talking it out

[forgottenjester]

Then he's not worth it. You're better. You're worth more. You deserve so much more than that.

[diet_poison]

Wow fuck that noise. I had a bf "break up" with me by completely ignoring me too - very suddenly, after multiple texts daily and constantly spending time together. Fortunately, it was not a long relationship so I wasn't as attached as I could have been. I gave him a few weeks to grow some nads and talk to me, but when he didn't I finally dumped him (formally, since he left our relationship status up and never messaged me saying he wanted it to end).

He started dating another girl a month later and now they're engaged. Sometimes relationships suck. =(

[ariakas]

...I have done this.

/ashamed

Basically, I'd already decided to break it off and no amount of discussion was going to change my mind, and I knew from experience with the guy that any attempt to "talk it out" would just turn into a huge, foot-stomping tantrum (part of the reason I was breaking up with him!) in which he'd attempt to wheedle me out of doing so, for hours. And he'd never stop texting me/emailing me/calling me/etc. to "make his case".

So I pulled up every device he could possibly use to contact me, sent him a single message saying we were through, and blocked his number/email/FB/IM/etc. immediately.

[deenaa]

I find that different to just stonewalling someone - you made it clear you were done and then cut off contact with someone you knew would be disrespectful. Please don't be ashamed for blocking off someone approaching stalker status.

[ariakas]

Thanks for that. It suuuuurree didn't stop him from telling everyone he knew what a cowardly bitch I was for not "hearing him out", though.

[deenaa]

Ahaha, well that's just him lashing out in an attempt to manipulate you. The truth is that while he has the right to ask for a reason, you don't have to give him one - just "I don't want to be in this relationship" is enough.

[(Anonymous)]

I have done this too, and I have absolutely zero shame.

For months, the only contact between us had been initiated by me, because he was too busy with his MMORG. Then, when he finally did get around to calling me, he managed to give me a "this is how you suck" lecture under the guise of "helpfully" suggesting that I might have ADHD.

I take no shame in cutting him off, without discussion.

[diet_poison]

I think it would have been decent of you to tell him why you were breaking it off. I totally understand *why* you did it though.

[diet_poison]

I don't think that's the same thing, since

a) he obviously didn't know how to approach "talking it out" in an adult way, and
b) you messaged him telling him it was over and why

[(Anonymous)]

You did the right thing and protected yourself. That's the sort of guy who ends up being an abuser, and by dealing with it like this you've dodged more problems in the future.

The movie was about Raleigh finding another co-pilot

[nyxelestia]

If you really want to, you'll find one, too. And if not, you can totally rock the world on your own. :)

Re: The movie was about Raleigh finding another co-pilot

[(Anonymous)]

not OP, but that is the sweetest way to look at it and probably the best comment in this thread.

[(Anonymous)]

I literally writhed in secondhand embarrassment at this secret.

Guess the part that's true is dude really was like Raleigh: a self-absorbed douche.