[ SECRET POST #2489 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2489 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 058 secrets from Secret Submission Post #356.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

i have a mother who is still racist/homophobic/etc, taught me to hate, taught me i was worth less than a man and needed to stay pregnant in the kitchen, etc. i'm in therapy. i do not need to spend the rest of my fucking life whining about it. because you know what, she DID shape me in bad ways but also in good ways because she taught me what i didn't want. it sucked while it happened but i'm a fucking adult and i'm owning my own growth now. if she can't grow it's on her but i'm not going to be sitting around in my 30s throwing a fit over my non-abuse and refusing to move the fuck on with my life until my mom connects with a shitty fictional character. at a certain point my obsession with my mother's behavior is just going to make me more miserable and will do NOTHING to change her. what the fuck is the point? get in therapy and live your damn life already

[(Anonymous)]

I have gotten over it. But I can see why OP would wish she could get through to her? I do that too. Jfc everyone is so judgmental and assuming of the worst around here.

[(Anonymous)]

sorry my "your" wasn't meant to be at you, it came across like that because i wasn't thinking. it was more about the OP.

da

[(Anonymous)]

Moral of the story: don't EVER EVER EVER make a fandomsecret about a random stray thought, because taking 5 minutes to slap text on an image means you've devoted your entire life to the train of thought you were typing and it is V V IMPORTANT TO YOU BECAUSE THIS IS FANDOMSECRETS AND SRS BSNS ISSUES ONLY

rolling my eyes at everybody.

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

No I don't care what people are replying. I clarified below to chadmonster

Re: da

[chardmonster]

We are not the ones who started complaining about their parents

Re: da

[(Anonymous)]

Lol I'm on no side in this debate, I find it fucking hilarious everybody is arguing 'it's fandomsecrets so OP MUST BE SERIOUS AND THINKNIG ABOUT THIS ALL THE TIME AND HUNG UP ON EVERYTHING. they made a FANDOMSECRET about it'

like lol really. really

[(Anonymous)]

OP isn't pointlessly whining into the void about their mother, they're trying to find ways to mend the relationship because apparently they want to keep having friendly contact with her. I assume you avoid your mother like the plague today because she's such an asshole that refuses to change? Some people might like not to do that if at all possible, because some parents do change.

[(Anonymous)]

Did you ever think that people handle things differently? People like you are shit for not realizing this.

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe talk to your therapist about learning to be less of a judgemental asshole yourself. :) It might enrich your life.

[(Anonymous)]

concern troll with passive aggressive smiley-check.

[(Anonymous)]

Well aren't you special. Good for you that you've found peace but you don't get to dictate what someone else needs to do to find peace, much less accuse them of "whining" and yelling profanity at them. WTH is wrong with you? Why are so many self-proclaimed victims of abuse in this thread so angry at someone who isn't handling their situation exactly the same as you?