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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-26 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2489 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2489 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-10-26 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
i've seen it said by people that encouraging therapy and growth and moving past abuse is "victim blaming". even when the abuser is long gone, even when it's been years, saying maybe it's time you stop wallowing in the past is now BAD to say. Uh. sure. whatever. enjoy living the rest of your life stuck there, never finding true happiness because you can't bring yourself to walk away from an issue that's been dead for years. i know it's not easy. PTSD is no fuckin picnic. but nothing's ever going to get better if you don't take a step in the right direction. constantly facing backwards won't work.