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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-10-26 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2489 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2489 ⌋

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dreemyweird: (austere)

[personal profile] dreemyweird 2013-10-27 09:33 am (UTC)(link)
IA with the first part; perhaps it would be a good idea for the OP (albeit they do not seem to be traumatised), but the method is questionable. It is not the addressing as such that matters, it is how one does it.

As to the second part, it really has nothing to do with "moving on" (which I am probably in the process of) - it is about avoiding an open confrontation, not about keeping the relationship up. Walking away from someone isn't confronting them. At the time, I would've gladly walked away if I could, and I believe your friend did the right thing (it sure as hell would be odd if she wanted to keep in contact with her father).