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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-04 06:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2498 ]


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Re: best friend (or more?) drama

[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-11-05 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
Hm. Well, for one it's not really that healthy to be so dependent on someone, especially in such a transient sort of relationship.

I'm also a bit confused about why you didn't tell her in the first place that you had feelings for her. Were you afraid she'd leave? It kinda sounds like she was into you. idk, maybe there's more perspective here.

At any rate, ia with anon. Talk to her about this. Sometimes friendships are rocky like other kinds of relationships. It's not always smooth sailin'.

Re: best friend (or more?) drama

(Anonymous) 2013-11-05 02:35 am (UTC)(link)
I wasn't exactly "into" her, I just had never thought about her that way. I know it must be weird to have gotten off with and had sex with someone like that, but I really always thought she was straight and we were just having fun. If I had let myself start to think of her in that way, it would've been awkward - considering we were roommates in addition to best friends. I'm pretty good at not being romantically interested in people if I don't consider them a possibility in the first place. If she were sincere and confessed to me sober, I think I could've started thinking about her sexually easily and been able to consider being girlfriends. But I never thought about it. I really never thought about it until it was too late anyway.

Thanks for the comment, though. Maybe I'll get drunk, or pretend I'm really drunk, and bring it up. that's probably not the best option but I don't know how else I'd talk about it without being able to backtrack if it only made things worse.