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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-06 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #2500 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2500 ⌋

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Re: Ugh

(Anonymous) 2013-11-07 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
I don't that it's "low", per se, just... a weird issue you have about available people not being as desirable as unavailable people. That could be for a lot of reasons. For one thing, if a guy is unavailable, well, that means there's less chance of you entering a relationship with him. All the pressure of making a relationship work (and all the risks that come with trying) is off because he's unavailable, so you're free to fantasize about how great things could be without having to try and make that dream a reality.

You shouldn't necessarily beat yourself up over it, but being aware of this tendency is a good idea. If you can afford therapy, that's another possibility. You could try and get to the bottom of why this is a Thing for you.