[ SECRET POST #2500 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2500 ⌋

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Comments

Ugh

[(Anonymous)]

Some time ago I posted here about being attracted to jerks. Someone suggested I was a actually attracted to unavailable men, and this suggestion seems to be true. I recently hooked up with an adorable guy, really kind and sweet. Well,today he sent me a text saying he needed to talk to me. We met and he proceeded to tell me he wanted us to go back to just friends - im cool with that - because he's still hung up on his ex. And I swear at that second he became more attractive. The next second I was feeling disgusted by myself because really? Preying on confused, insecure men? How low can I get???

Re: Ugh

[fingalsanteater]

Confused, insecure, sad men and jerks are my type too and I wish I knew how to be attracted to not fucked up people.

Re: Ugh

[(Anonymous)]

Nah, it doesn't make you low or anything. People are weird and have unpredictable and unaccountable preferences sometimes. That's who we are, that's what we do. It is what it is, as long as you're not actually taking advantage of anyone, I mean. Nothing to be disgusted about in being attracted to people for irrational reasons.

Re: Ugh

[(Anonymous)]

I don't that it's "low", per se, just... a weird issue you have about available people not being as desirable as unavailable people. That could be for a lot of reasons. For one thing, if a guy is unavailable, well, that means there's less chance of you entering a relationship with him. All the pressure of making a relationship work (and all the risks that come with trying) is off because he's unavailable, so you're free to fantasize about how great things could be without having to try and make that dream a reality.

You shouldn't necessarily beat yourself up over it, but being aware of this tendency is a good idea. If you can afford therapy, that's another possibility. You could try and get to the bottom of why this is a Thing for you.

Re: Ugh

[(Anonymous)]

Hey it's ok. I found out a girl I crushed on months ago is, in fact, trans. The crush kinda faded cus I thought she wasn't, but now I know she is it's back. Makes me feel kinda skeevy, but she's just my type.