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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-09 03:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2503 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2503 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 105 secrets from Secret Submission Post #358.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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(Anonymous) 2013-11-09 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Sometimes it's more complicated than that.

I think you're right that for many people, the problem is more in their head than anywhere else. Your mistake is in assuming problems in people's heads will go away if they just try.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2013-11-09 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
This is true. I imagine a lot of the people who say they can't make fandom friends are the same people who very shy or anxious about commenting signed in.

(Anonymous) 2013-11-09 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
I get anxious about commenting anonymously most days! Social interaction of any kind is very nerve-wracking.

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(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
This.
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[personal profile] littlestbirds 2013-11-09 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
IA. Starting conversations can be just as intimidating with an explicit invitation, the barriers are mental.
Even if the threads get repetitive, I just see them as part of the landscape here. People looking for a little support and advice...