[ SECRET POST #2503 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2503 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Being interesting doesn't really make you friends, does it? It gets you attention from and included by a certain kind of person, but those people aren't necessarily going to be your close friends. I say this from experience of being an "interesting" person IRL. What makes you friends is trying to connect with people, not waiting for people to connect with you.

[fingalsanteater]

What makes you friends is trying to connect with people, not waiting for people to connect with you.

This is true, but fuck if it isn't frustrating sometimes. I'm usually the one doing the connecting to in my relationships and sometimes you just want someone to come along and be interested in you for a change.

[hiyami]

Yeah, but sadly the world is divided between people who are taking initiatives and people who aren't (also some people are busier than others, some are better at keeping in touch than others, but that's another factor)

After a while I have accepted that either I feel the relationship is worth doing the connecting, or it's not and then I wait.

I do try to be the one that reconnects when the last contact came from them and I couldn't make it to whatever activity they proposed because I was too busy, though. Some people are shy and will stop asking if they get a rebuff, thinking you looked for an excuse to not see them. *shrug*

[(Anonymous)]

Ugh and on my side I never know how to initiate/reciprocate because I feel like my "interestingness" is superficial and I can't imagine why people would want to talk to me.
I am sorry you get frustrated, especially because I am certain I frustrate people in the same way...