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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-09 03:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2503 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2503 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-11-09 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I often think that maybe people who have difficulty making friends are a bit off in their approach, but in ways they don't realize. Seen it happen a lot in my fandom. Sometimes people are SO VERY EAGER to make friends that being around them feels overwhelming, like being attacked by a slobbery puppy. Or sometimes people just don't realize that the things they say are off-putting.

That said, you HAVE to make the first move and talk to other people if you want to make friends. Lurking and waiting for people to recognize your awesomeness isn't going to work.