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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-10 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2504 ]


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Re: incompatibility

(Anonymous) 2013-11-10 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
It's happened, and I just supported my friends; that's all you can really do. Even if you think he might be abusive you have to be careful, because if you say that it can make things worse (though I would suggest trying to help lead her in the right direction).

As for the second scenario, I would ask her why she hated him, and go from there. If it's because he was rude to her or something, then I'll deal with him. If she just doesn't like his political views or something, well, it's her problem.

Ass cliche as this may be, not everyone is going to get along. I have friends who I love dearly, but I don't even force other friends to be with them because of their personalities. I would never expect my boyfriend or husband to want to be their friend, just because they're my friend. And of course it works the other way around. Again, the only problem is if it's a situation where I feel one is trying to push me away from the other for vindictive reasons.
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Re: incompatibility

[personal profile] ginainthekingsroad 2013-11-11 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
ASS CLICHE is my new band name.