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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-10 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2504 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2504 ⌋

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ariakas: (BFFs)

Re: incompatibility

[personal profile] ariakas 2013-11-11 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
Give them a polite, understanding, sincere warning and expect them to either not heed it/lash out/not give a shit, because love is blind. That said, a good friend is honest, especially when it's something that might spare their friend pain and trouble in the future.

Then let them handle it in their own way. Possibly with a bowl of popcorn to watch as they slowly realize the same thing you did months ago. If your words make them come to that conclusion even a week earlier, it was worth it.

Truly good friends, however, will refrain from saying "I told you so" when that happens and that friend comes running to you for comfort and support.

/speaks from experience