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fandomsecrets2013-11-11 06:54 pm
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[ SECRET POST #2505 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2505 ⌋
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Re: Sibling-related rants
(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 01:27 am (UTC)(link)I hate my brother.
He's a shitty person. He's utterly self-centered, lacks any kind of self-awareness. He's the kind of person who follows the bullies because he wants to look cool. He got mad at his girlfriend when she broke up with him because he cheated on her. He's sexist, racist, and homophobic (bingo!). He gets angry and throws stuff and punches walls. Whenever something goes wrong, it's always somebody else's fault.
In all my life, he has never said a single nice thing to me. I've realized that the only good memories I have involving him are the ones where we have a neutral conversation about the weather, and he doesn't insult me.
If he wasn't family and living in the same house, I wouldn't interact with him at all.
Whenever I mention that I dislike him, my parents go: "But he's family! He might change!" So? Why the fuck should I wait around for him to change? Why do I owe him anything?
Re: Sibling-related rants
(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 01:41 am (UTC)(link)It's never my brother's fault when things go wrong too. Also, I spent the better part of my life being compared to his academic achievements and him calling me stupid and it does quite a number on my self-esteem.
And I love books, sometimes when things are shitty in life books are my only source of joy. He'd said terrible things to me but one of the worst that he'd said was that clearly books are useless for me and my intelligence. I was stunned silent when I heard that and couldn't stomach talking to him for a whole month and my parents kept oestering me to talk to him again. Not for him to apologize, no, but for me to relent.
it's frustrating.
Re: Sibling-related rants
(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 01:48 am (UTC)(link)My brother's done a number on my self-esteem too.
Your parents sound very similar to mine - they ask me to apologize, or get mad at ME for getting mad at him, and they never discipline him, because it's too difficult. But if I did anything like what he gets away with... oh boy.
Your brother sounds like a pretentious ass. Books are AMAZING and wonderful, they can take you to different worlds and let you be different people! Never stop reading.
Re: Sibling-related rants
(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 02:20 am (UTC)(link)I think it's true that since dealing with the more dominant/headstrong child is difficult, my parents (and maybe yours) decide they'd just deal with me instead. And people wonder why I'm such a doormat.
Re: Sibling-related rants
(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 03:04 am (UTC)(link)seriously, i'm STILL trying to get over my doormat-ness, and learn to stick up for myself. most of the time I just don't even bother to fight people.
Re: Sibling-related rants
Re: Sibling-related rants
(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 05:20 am (UTC)(link)Seesh, society. call me old fashioned but loving family unconditionally (unless they like, try to murder or rape you or something else crazy) is important. It's one thing to dislike, or not want to be around, but hate? That is just really fucking depressing.