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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-11 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #2505 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2505 ⌋

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Re: Sibling-related rants

(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
Let us commiserate, Nonny!

It's never my brother's fault when things go wrong too. Also, I spent the better part of my life being compared to his academic achievements and him calling me stupid and it does quite a number on my self-esteem.

And I love books, sometimes when things are shitty in life books are my only source of joy. He'd said terrible things to me but one of the worst that he'd said was that clearly books are useless for me and my intelligence. I was stunned silent when I heard that and couldn't stomach talking to him for a whole month and my parents kept oestering me to talk to him again. Not for him to apologize, no, but for me to relent.

it's frustrating.

Re: Sibling-related rants

(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
I will gladly commiserate with you!

My brother's done a number on my self-esteem too.

Your parents sound very similar to mine - they ask me to apologize, or get mad at ME for getting mad at him, and they never discipline him, because it's too difficult. But if I did anything like what he gets away with... oh boy.

Your brother sounds like a pretentious ass. Books are AMAZING and wonderful, they can take you to different worlds and let you be different people! Never stop reading.

Re: Sibling-related rants

(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh yeah, your parents do sound like mine :/ sorry to hear that, Nonny...

I think it's true that since dealing with the more dominant/headstrong child is difficult, my parents (and maybe yours) decide they'd just deal with me instead. And people wonder why I'm such a doormat.

Re: Sibling-related rants

(Anonymous) 2013-11-12 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
haha are you me?

seriously, i'm STILL trying to get over my doormat-ness, and learn to stick up for myself. most of the time I just don't even bother to fight people.