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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-11-16 03:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #2510 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2510 ⌋

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Re: Family guilt

(Anonymous) 2013-11-17 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
Your birth mother's death is NOT your fault. You didn't ask to be conceived; she made the choice to keep the pregnancy and have you.

Try to remember that there's one huge thing that you do for her -- you remember her fondly. You love her. It sounds like she didn't have a great relationship with the rest of her family, so that's worth something in itself.

Other people have suggested planting trees for her and such; another idea, if you have the means, is to make a donation in her name -- maybe to a substance abuse recovery program, or to a cause associated with something she liked. Either way, I hope you can let go of the guilt you're feeling, because nothing that happened to her is actually your fault. *hugs if wanted*