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⌈ Secret Post #2510 ⌋

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I'd just like to say, it's not your fault you were born, and it's most definitely not your fault you were born with fetal alcohol syndrome. That is on her, and if she couldn't refrain from excessive alcohol (and probably other shit too) during her pregnancy then she probably would have died of substance abuse even if you hadn't come along. So don't feel guilty, you didn't do anything wrong!

That said, it is completely fine to love her and miss her and be sad about how she died. That's totally normal! I bet there is some way to search for people who have died and find out where they are buried. No idea how or where you could start looking, but the internet is vast and holds lots of information, you could well find it out. Good luck!

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Re: Family guilt